There are few things I hate more than being lied to. If I ask you a question don't try to protect me from the truth. I am tired of being dragged along because people are afraid of hurting me. While you think you are protecting me, in reality you are being incredibly self-centered. How do you not see that being dragged along wouldn't hurt me more than being told the simple truth? Sometimes the truth is painful, but when you lie the pain lingers far longer.
I was in a marriage full of lies, so am I a little hypersensitive to it now? Probably. Who wouldn't be? But I learned a lot from that marriage. Actions speak louder than words. Don't tell me what I want to hear because you don't want to hurt me. Lying gets us nowhere. Save us both the heartache and let's move on.
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